When You Become Disappointed

Word for January 23rd, 2023

When you become disappointed in another's behaviour or lack of behaviour, know that you are judging them when you need to forgive them.  If you first forgive then I can speak to your open heart and give you direction of what to do in any particular situation.  Sometimes I ask you just to reconcile directly with that person.  Sometimes I say, "Just be silent for now and maybe there will be a time to speak."  Sometimes I ask you to speak boldly into the situation.  But you can do none of that except from a place of love which, let me remind you, is the only place to move from where it will birth life, not death.  That is why I say to you, "Forgive first."  And if you have trouble with that, remind yourself of how much I have forgiven you and I continue to forgive you each and every time you come to Me.  So don't let disappointment turn into resentment and bitterness which all cause division.  Instead forgive one another and ask for My wisdom as to how to proceed.  You need the wisdom.  Don't try and figure it out on your own.  You need My wisdom to guide you.  When you are in that place of love you will hear wisdom.